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"I wish I knew how the early disciples lived day to day."
This is a statement my wife has made several times and I would tend
to agree with her. I personally wouldn't mind if the Bible gave
us details as to how day-to-day life looked. Especially when it
comes to juggling the priorities of raising a family. There are
the responsibilities of earning a living. For many, this is quite
significant in a challenging economy and one of the most expensive
areas of the country. Then, of course, our kids. Loving, nursing,
watching, providing, clothing, feeding, driving, listening, bathing,
teaching, disciplining, arguing, disagreeing, instructing, correcting,
encouraging, did I mention loving?! Significant energy, humility
and heart required. There are significant moral challenges living
in Boston. What is being taught in schools is incredibly troubling.
A pro homosexual agenda, abortion, etc-and those who disagree are
painted as discriminatory bigots. Parents are discouraged from speaking
about Jesus or God and "imposing" our beliefs on others.
Are my kids building great friendships with other kids? The right
kids? How are my relationships with my son and daughter? Are we
close? How did the early disciples do it? Some families were being
severely persecuted. Some separated. House churches sometimes met
in caves. Christians were being pursued by the authorities. Some
were hungry and jobless. Yet clearly they were filled with love
for God and one another. In fact, they were filled with enough contentment,
faith and inspiration that the gospel was spread throughout the
world and passed down through many generations. How did they live
out their Christian faith in the first century and how should we
live out our Christian faith today?
Let's Find the Answers Together!
A group of parents in the Greater Boston Region has been meeting
together over the past few months to search for these answers. We
believe God has been moving in our lives to bring these issues to
our attention and his Spirit is at work to help us understand his
will for our lives and the impact we can have on the church and
the world. We also believe the Bible has answers! (2 Peter 1:3).
Here are some of the goals we have set.
1. Restore the Role of Fathers!
We agree that dads need lots of help! And that is okay because God
has placed such a great responsibility on fathers-the privilege
of leading their families. We want to help equip and encourage dads
to be servant leaders in their home, to lead spiritually, to learn
to connect to their wives and children, and to serve as a Christ-like
example to not only their families, but also to their neighbours,
peers, and workmates. We're all in this together and we are praying
about and working towards ways to equip and encourage the men in
our region to become strong spiritual men. We invite and call men
to join us in times of teaching and encouragement and to take an
active role in their families. role in their families.
2. Restore Titus 2 Teaching for Women!
The Bible recognizes and values the wisdom gleaned from those with
years of experience as wives and mothers. These experiences can
be good or bad, but wisdom is gained either way. The Bible commands
the older women to encourage the younger women to love their husbands
and children. What a blessing for both the teacher and the student!
We would like to put out a call to the older, wiser, experienced
women in our fellowship, You are needed, whether you are a mother
of grown children out of the house, a single mother with older children,
or even a mother of school-aged children who can help new mothers.
As Christians we have much to give to one another, to help younger
parents avoid mistakes made and to imitate the good of those who
have gone before us. We as parents must not be deceived. We don't
know what we are doing. We are both arrogant and shortsighted if
we are not actively getting input and help from spiritual men and
women who have gone before us.
3. Restore the Impact of the Family
Imagine our church filled with strong spiritual families. Families
that can minister to other families. Families that consistently
share their faith. Families that can offer support, love, comfort,
and encouragement to everyone in the church-teens, college students
and adults. Families that serve the poor and needy together. Families
that offer a refuge for those who are broken and desperate spiritually
and are seeking to know God. Families filled with faith, encouragement,
and peace. Paul writes about the disciples leading "a
tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity. This is good
and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all men
to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth." (1 Timothy
2:3-4).
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